'Charity ellenor makes such a difference to my life with cancer' - Amy from Dartford
00:01, 07 May 2015
A terminally ill teenager has spoken bravely about her battle with cancer – and the dreams she hopes to fulfil before it is too late.
Amy Kemp is only 17 but has battled cancer for much of her short life.
Her condition now is incurable but Amy, who lives in the Temple Hill area of Dartford, has told her story ahead of Children’s Hospice Week, in the hope the community will give generously to the local charity that cares for her.
She has also shared her bucket list, which has dreams of a trip to Dubai to more modest treats such as a spa day and a visit to the London Aquarium.
"There is no good time to be told you have cancer, but at 15 when your life is just starting it is very difficult to deal with" - Amy
At the age of seven, Amy was diagnosed with Ewing’s Sarcoma, a type of bone cancer, and was put in touch with ellenor – the only charity in Kent that provides care and support to seriously ill people of all ages.
Every year ellenor provides vital end-of-life, cancer and respite care to more than 150 children in the comfort of their own homes, something that Amy remembers well before going into remission.
She said: “I was only little and I remember feeling very scared, especially because I needed injections all the time.
“My ellenor nurse Sharon would come to my house and she was absolutely amazing. In time I didn’t need numbing cream because Sharon took away any fear and anxiety.
"Hospitals can be a scary place when you are a child so it meant everything to be able to stay at home with my family.”
After several years of being cancer-free, Amy’s world came crashing down in 2013 after being told just two days after Christmas her cancer had returned.
“I haven’t felt I’ve needed counselling from ellenor but I know it is available to me should I want it" - Amy
In a desperate bid to save her life doctors took the drastic decision to amputate Amy’s left leg below the knee. After going into remission a second time, Amy was told the devastating news in January this year that the cancer has spread to her ribs and is incurable.
Amy and her family continue to receive support from ellenor, which offers round-the-clock care to families living in north and west Kent both during a loved one’s illness and following bereavement.
The former Longfield Academy pupil said: “My nurse is called Kay and she is incredible.
“She’s helped with pain relief and is always checking up on me – even just a quick call to make sure I am OK.
"There is no good time to be told you have cancer, but at 15 when your life is just starting it is very difficult to deal with. It’s made all the difference having the support of Kay and everyone at ellenor.”
Children’s Hospice Week, from May 11-17, is the UK’s only awareness raising and fundraising week for children with life-limiting conditions and children’s hospice services that support them.
On Friday, May 15, ellenor is also encouraging local businesses, schools and groups to wear their comfy clothes as part of its Pyjama Friday Funday in exchange for a donation.
Amy added: “I haven’t felt I’ve needed counselling from ellenor but I know it is available to me should I want it. I am very thankful to everyone who donates to ensure this charity can continue to provide care to people like me.”
“Katie Cutler has set up a foundation to raise £1million for 10 people, and I am one of the lucky people she has chosen to help"
Like all teenagers Amy would love to meet her favourite singer and travel the world.
Determined to make her wildest dreams a reality, Amy has drawn up a bucket list and called on the help of northern good samaritan Katie Cutler, who hit headlines in February by raising £330,000 for disabled attack victim Alan Barnes.
Amy’s wish to see Olly Murs in concert came true earlier this week after seeing him on stage at the O2 arena, but she is yet to meet her idol in person.
Other items on her list include seeing animals at London Zoo, dine in a top London restaurant and jet-set to Dubai and Australia.
Amy said: “Katie Cutler has set up a foundation to raise £1million for 10 people, and I am one of the lucky people she has chosen to help.
"Things are slow at the moment but I am very excited that plans are under way for some of my wishes.
“I have expensive tastes and would really love to go to Dubai. I would also love to meet Olly Murs. I am very grateful to everyone who is helping to make my dreams become a reality.”
For more information about Amy’s bucket list visit www.katiecutlerfoundation.co.uk
For more information about ellenor and the care and support it provides to local families facing terminal illness, please visit www.ellenor.org
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