Christmas dinner for lonely in Medway hosted by Platters Farm Lodge care home in Rainham
16:19, 16 December 2019
updated: 16:19, 16 December 2019
In the words of Charles Dickens, it can be the "best of times and the worst of times" at Christmas depending on your situation.
For thousands of isolated members of the community across Kent and Medway, it can be the worst as they might not have the family and friends around them while everyone else is enjoying company and Christmas dinner.
A care home in Rainham is looking to change that for some of the most vulnerable people.
Platters Farm Lodge in Highfield Road is hosting an afternoon of festive fun for 50 people who might normally be sat at home in front of the telly, alone and in the cold.
A warm welcome from the home will extend to giving guests an early Christmas Day when they host their first Lonely at Christmas event on December 22.
Manager Becky Richards said they have been wanting to put on something "for a while" and have now made it a reality.
"We looked and thought what can we do to just to give something back to support people," she said.
"We see a lot of people that come in through the hospital that don't necessarily have family or any close by.
"So we're coming up with with an idea and making sure they have some nice food and get people together and sorting links between the community.
"It can be a really lonely time. I imagine that can be a horrible thing especially at this time of year.
"A lot of people say that aren't going to bother because 'it's just me' and don't cook a Christmas dinner."
The celebrations are open to anyone in the community but specifically for the elderly or those on their own this Christmas.
'They may meet people in a similar situation and may make friends out of it or just come back next year,' care home manager Becky Richards
Anyone can put themselves forward - but spaces are limited - or nominate someone to go.
Free transport can be made available to those who have issues getting around or out and about.
Becky hopes the event will open up people with similar experiences and could lead to forging new friendships.
"It's for someone who might not have the means to access the community. They might spend two weeks alone because nobody is around.
"The opportunity is there if people want to forge links and met up with other people.
"It's an afternoon where they don't have to worry about anything.
"They may meet people in a similar situation and may make friends out of it or just come back next year.
"We've still got space and really encouraging people, it doesn't cost them anything."
The afternoon includes the meal after which gifts will be handed out, entertainment provided and a small carol services before tea, coffee and mince pies.
Packages will also be handed out containing Christmas puddings, tea, coffee and biscuits to help set people up during the Christmas period.
Festivities take place between 1pm and 5pm.
The home is run by the Strode Park Foundation and helps provide vital care, support services, care at home and supported living opportunities for adults and children with a range of disabilities.
Call the home on 01634 377579 to reserve a place for Lonely at Christmas.
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