QEQM Hospital wedding organised in matter of hours to ensure bride's dad could witness ceremony
13:56, 01 June 2022
updated: 07:01, 02 June 2022
Hospital staff helped organise a wedding in just four hours to ensure a terminally-ill father could witness his daughter get married.
Emma King and her partner Aaron Hams had already planned to wed in the chapel at the QEQM Hospital in Margate last Monday after her dad Peter’s condition worsened.
But after he deteriorated on Friday - and medics advised there was nothing more they could do - they realised there was no time to waste.
With no registrar available, the hospital’s chaplain stepped in to perform the ceremony at Peter's bedside on the Quex Ward on Friday evening.
Peter was able to witness his daughter tie the knot - surrounded by fellow family members, before succumbing to his worsening condition and passing away on Sunday.
Emma, 38, who lives in Ramsgate, said: “I just knew I wanted my dad to be there so we decided to bring the wedding forward.
“Doctors told me at noon on Friday that he didn’t have long left, and by the time I’d spoken to the chaplain it was 2pm, and after that it was just go, go, go.
“By 6pm we were getting married. It was just lovely, and my dad was so proud. He was so happy and he couldn’t take his eyes off us. It was all for him and I’m so grateful that we were able to make it happen.
Former civil servant Peter, who was 69, had originally been admitted to the hospital in April after suffering a stroke.
But doctors then discovered he had blood clots in his lungs and brain, and an active bleed on his brain.
Further tests revealed he had a bowel obstruction due to colon cancer and he was too ill for surgeons to operate.
Instead, the team used medication to try and shrink the tumour.
"It was absolutely perfect..."
Emma, who works in catering and hospitality, said: “That gave us more time with him and we will forever be thankful. On Friday he started experiencing more pain and we just knew what we had to do.
“The ward staff were amazing and so kind. They organised flowers for me and buttonholes for Aaron, there was a table with alcohol-free prosecco and cakes, and they decorated his bed space with banners and balloons.
“It was absolutely perfect. I couldn’t believe we managed to pull it off but we did. Then we could put everything aside for an hour and just concentrate on us as a family.”
Emma’s mum Jennifer, Aaron’s parents Keith and Pauline, Aaron’s sister Medina, and the couple’s two children, Paisley and Bobby were able to attend the ceremony.
She said: “We’ve been together 20 years and had often talked about getting married before now, but life is so busy it was always put to one side, and there were always other things to spend the money on.
“But I wouldn’t have changed a thing. My dad was there and that made it perfect. He died in the early hours of Sunday and I was so pleased we had brought the wedding forward."
Ward manager Katie Thomas says it was an honour for the team to help organise the wedding.
“We were delighted to be able to help with Emma and Aaron’s wedding," she said.
"As word spread throughout the hospital, people from different teams gave up some of their time to get involved and make it as special as possible.
“It was a wonderful moment and I hope they will cherish their memories of it forever.”
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